Field Note 11: The Touch That Changes Everything


Hello everyone,

A few days ago, after a surprisingly disappointing experience in a Bottega Veneta store, triggered by an issue with one of my favourite handbags, I found myself thinking about something the luxury world still underestimates: the people on the front line. The individuals in boutiques and showrooms. The ones who are the experience long before the product.

Story Time

Let’s rewind to 2015. I had just taken on my regional role overseeing 13 Lamborghini dealerships across the Middle East and Africa. It was a golden era. The region was booming, demand was accelerating, and we were delivering record numbers.

And yet, in the midst of all the success, a fundamental weakness surfaced: Our frontline teams weren’t equipped to handle UHNW clients with the finesse true luxury demands.

Technically, they were exceptional. Sales teams knew every torque figure and stitching option. Aftersales teams could diagnose a technical issue faster than most owners could describe it.

But what we lacked was that finer layer. The gentleness, the emotional precision, the micro-gestures that make a UHNW client feel understood, secure, and respected. That fragile, almost invisible touch that transforms interaction into loyalty.

Interestingly, many luxury houses in the region were poaching cabin crew from Emirates and Qatar Airways at that time. A very clear vote of confidence in hospitality training over fashion retail experience. It wasn’t about glamour. It was about builidng teams who have the ability to anticipate needs, soothe clients doubts, and subtly elevate every moment into a memorable experience.

In the Middle East, many frontline team members came from countries like Syria, the Philippines, and India. Most had never interacted with UHNWIs in their lives. Many were supporting entire families back home.

They were not underperforming. They simply hadn’t been taught luxury fluency: the emotional intelligence and nuance required to navigate this tier of clientele.

So, I began searching for training. I didn't want lofty “Luxury Strategy” modules. No academic theory. But everyday behaviour for everyday interactions. The things that happen when a client walks through the door.

Plot twist: nothing existed.
Not in 2015. Not even close.

So we built it ourselves.

Together with a training partner, we created a hybrid program:

Day 1: An introduction to UHNW psychology and the emotional drivers behind luxury.

Day 2: The now-popular Retail Safari.

We flew teams to Beirut (then affectionately called the "Paris of the Middle East"), gave them chauffeured cars, and sent them into boutiques like Hermès and Cartier as mystery shoppers.

Their mission:
Observe.
Feel.
Analyse.
Then return home, adapt, and apply.

The results were transformative! The program eventually became part of the Lamborghini Academy and rolled out across the entire dealer network.

The Moral of the Story

You can build the best product in your category.
You can create the most beautiful retail space.
You can run the most ambitious events.
You can train your teams technically to perfection.

But if the people on the ground lack luxury finesse, the entire structure collapses.

Luxury is a human industry. White-glove grace delivered by the frontline is the foundation of the champagne tower. Remove it, and everything above comes crashing down.

And here’s a final reminder that many forget: Train your aftersales teams too. Winning a UHNW client is difficult. Keeping them is an art form.

Where Things Stand Today

A quick search this morning shows progress. Courses for luxury sales associates and advisors now exist. Encouraging, yes. But still nowhere near the depth, nuance, or emotional sophistication the industry requires and clients expect.

Because excellence in luxury retail isn’t about scripts or rigid procedure. It’s about being gracious without servility. Being confident without an ego. Showing warmth, without over-familiarity. And being present without pressurising.

Truthfully, this last part is simply what every human deserves, whether they’re a HNWI or not.

How NEON NAVY Fits In

At NEON NAVY, this is something we take seriously. We help brands identify, design, and moderate the kind of frontline training that is practical, culturally aware, emotionally intelligent, and aligned with the luxury experience their clients expect.

Because finesse isn’t a soft skill in luxury.
It’s the whole game.

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This is the final Field Note of 2025. With the season of Christmas parties officially upon us and inboxes filling fast, I’m especially grateful that you choose to make time to read this.

Thank you to every one of you who reads these Field Notes. Writing them has been a genuine pleasure, and the conversations they’ve led to have been both grounding and energising. Next year, you can expect more, and better.

Wishing you a beautiful holiday season. Safe travels, good food, deep rest, and time with the people who matter most.

Thanks for reading,
Zantelle

Zantelle van der Linde

I’m curious about how culture, wealth, and tech keep changing what “luxury” means. I run NEON NAVY, where I help businesses reach high-net-worth audiences. I’m also CMO at Viperium, where we’re redefining access to trading by giving new traders capital to start, scaling opportunities and designing the token economy that powers it all.These are my Field Notes and this is the place where I share the ride. Part work, part observation, part side-thoughts. From Milan, Dubai, or wherever I end up. Subscribe if you like sharp takes with a human edge.

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